Why work Steps 8 and 9? When I make an Eighth Step list, I might be tempted to fantasize that everyone on it will like me by the end of Step 9. But that’s not really the purpose of these steps. I work Steps 8 and 9 to begin to live in harmony with those around me.

I can start with the people closest to me, which are often the people I work with. Even if direct amends aren’t appropriate, I can take actions that nurture a harmonious climate in my workplace. This is part of my recovery because it cultivates humility and helps me interact with the world as it is, not as I want it to be, which is the essence of surrender.

Today I will use “harmony” as my watchword. I will set aside behaviors I may have practiced in the past that stirred up drama or harmed others. I will aim to represent myself with kindness and honesty rather than manipulation. And I will trust that when I do my part to create harmony, my Higher Power can make the outcome what it needs to be.